Psychological manipulation of loved ones with Emotional Blackmail 19
This is something that often we exercise our most loved ones. Very ornate and in their own unique way exert psychological pressure on us to 'do their own thing' - yeah, right, this is a form of abuse ...
People who are blackmailing us have identified precisely the Achilles heel of us. They know better than ourselves what our 'shuffles his guts', and as the stirring up in order to serve their purposes.
Somehow so. And do not think how anyone blackmail you obviously to feel ... Sometimes the threat hovering in the air, not flesh and blood but the feel. The threat is not just words or ambiguous glances sideways ... The threat lies and empty eyes, and in them that someone fails to say, or do, the very absence of the person many times. Be the simplest: a phone call not made us our favorite ... so, to worry us a bit and 'we are best guys next time.
What we do, how we face if we decide we do not want anymore?
First of all find it. I say this because it is not always easy to identify since most times what our game becomes second nature.
Eg we have established and perhaps seems obvious now what if we leave our mother alone and go on holiday will disappoint. Sometimes even such emotional blackmail them identify the others, from the outside much better than us because we "do not play the same game."
Ante and identified. But can we change others?
Mmmmm ... .ochi, to be honest. But can we change address. And above all we can finally put our limits. You see, it takes two to one play this game-it takes two to tango. If the other understand that we no longer play the role of victim, will eventually give up. Who goes to piei a source when he knows he will not come out even one drop of water? It is so simple? Each other! First, needs work on our part to egkataleipsoyme the role of victim. For some reason we have 'accommodated' we too can play this role. Secondly, the 'blackmailer' we will react very strongly to take a decision that these no longer crossing '. You do like Rebel claiming acquired or as a toddler hit because he took the candy from his mouth.
As I think about it ... if it was not so complicated shackles that sets man would be so great thing freedom?
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